Does it get you mad or irritated when your team bullpen gives up the lead after your ace has pitched a gem.?

it's happen at least five times which is alot alot with johan santana. santana pitched 71/3 innings pitching a shutout today and as soon as he came out of the game the inning ended with the mets trailing 3-2 and a no decision for santana. its ok if they still win but cmon save your effing dignity and not blow the lead with 5 outs left. stupid manual used like 3 pitchers and they each threw like 5 pitches and it didnt work.